Are Men Done With American Women?

“I’m done with American women.”

This was the general response when I asked what made them decide to come to us. Many men in America are asking themselves in the privacy of their rooms — “Can I build a future with a local girl?”

Men seem to be incriminated on social media before they are proven innocent and there is fighting concerning the role of the sexes and what it means to be a man or woman in the 21st century.

So, how have men responded? Social media and surveys are revealing an exodus of men leaving the American dating market. Men are not optimistic that marrying a local woman or those from dating apps would be a wise decision.

I’ve started to ask the men that come to our matchmaking service to explain why they are done with American women.

Too troublesome to date.

“American women are too individualistic.” During their parents’ and grandparents’ time, it was simple. Men would decide how the date would go and women would be guided. Men open the door for a lady and pull the chair for them at the restaurant.

Nowadays, dating a local woman requires work. Men need to research how not to offend a lady on a date. Some women would be offended if the men would open the door for them or pull the chair so they could sit down.

The usual reason for such backlash is “I don’t need a man to open the door for me, I can do it myself!” Other responses like “Respect me! I don’t need a man. I’m my own woman!” The common everyday man just wants to please her.

They undermine gender roles.

Men are historically essential. Without the physical strength of a man, who would hunt and till the land? Procuring the majority of the calories of the tribe fell to the men. Likewise, if men weren’t physically strong they could be wiped out by hostile tribes or predators.

It makes sense why sections of the population cannot accept women in traditionally male roles. There are exceptions but I would be concerned if any woman took any male-dominated role anywhere because of her gender and not the results she produced.

Men and women excel in the roles that nature has conditioned them for. Men work outside and women care for the home and our men look for that.

Reject traditional family roles.

Women reject traditional motherhood. The societal role of the family is to procreate and raise children. I hear the men coming to our service talking about how American women they’ve encountered reject that role.

Men that come to our matchmaking service look precisely for continuity towards the future. They want to find a wife at the end of courtship and not a fling for pleasure. American men are unsure if their women are seriously looking for that.

It’s Easier to Look For a Wife Abroad

Men are voting with their feet. In general, they are tired of dating local women because they’re biting off more than what their greater society has allowed. Men are required to put in more research and effort to “understand how a woman needs to be treated.”

Likewise, they understand that nature cannot be legislated and efficiency is when men lead and women stick to the home and not the reverse. Lastly, the men that use our service want to ensure that when they meet a woman she also wants to stick with the family-making formula that has worked for millennia.

So, if these men’s views resonate with you, why take the unnecessary hassle of dating an American woman? Why not try foreign dating?