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Celebrate Love Daily: 7 Reasons Everyday Is Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day is undoubtedly special. It’s one reason most couples don’t hold back and go all out for their partners. After all, it isn’t called the Day of Love for nothing!
It’s not surprising for couples to exert maximum effort during Cupid’s favorite day of the year. But for some lovebirds, February 14 isn’t a big deal. They don’t see the point in joining the festivities themselves because, in their eyes, everyday is Valentine’s Day.
You might wonder how you can make every day feel like Hearts’ Day — wonder no more. Allow this entry to show you the ropes.
Why The V-Day Doubt?
Before I give the reasons, here’s a little explanation behind the philosophy.
Let’s get one thing out of the way first: these couples don’t hate Valentine’s Day. They don’t mind seeing other people go along with the whole shebang but choose not to make it a noteworthy relationship event. Some people in long-term relationships agree with this sentiment.
This viewpoint isn’t unfounded — some experts even notice this too.
In a Bustle piece, relationship expert and psychotherapist Brooke Bralove mentioned the uneasiness some feel as V-Day approaches. “Many of us, single or coupled, can feel a bit of dread about the [holiday] because we’ve decided that on an arbitrary day in miserable, cold February, we will all test the strength, validity, or happiness of our relationships,” she says.
Aside from the anxiety, there’s another understandable consideration: practicality. Why spend your hard-earned cash on overpriced food when you can stay home and cook your own meal?
Why Show Your Love Everyday?
There’s merit to celebrating love every day. These reasons may encourage you:
#1: Relationship status isn’t a flex.
You may see social media posts of couples showing their love for each other. While it’s harmless, some couples prefer to keep their relationships away from prying eyes.
At some point, you’ll feel you don’t need a loud declaration of love. Your partner’s reassurance is enough.
#2: Pressure is unnecessary.
Valentine’s Day can bring extra pressure for lovers everywhere. The good news is you don’t have to sweep your partner off their feet every time. As long as you’re putting in work to keep your relationship happy and healthy, fancy gifts are optional.
#3: Romantic love isn’t the only one the heart beats for.
Your heart has plenty of space for other kinds of love. What about the love of family? Friendships matter too! Loving yourself also counts.
Your other connections are just as significant as your romantic ones. Your relationship isn’t the only thing keeping you busy. If you’re secure about each other, there’s no reason to be scared of being independent and letting other people in.
#4: Spontaneity is more enjoyable.
A small sweet reminder trumps a box of chocolates for 364 days a year. The latter may be momentous, but you’ll likely cherish the memory of the former longer. You don’t need a calendar to tell you to make your partner’s day extra special.
#5: Other special occasions exist.
Relationship milestones are worth celebrating. Even something like the anniversary of your move-in together can be your holiday. You can make any special occasion a Day of Love.
#6: Sometimes, going against the grain is fun.
A little rebellion can be romantic. It’s a little cinematic: the two of you unite against a huge force. This little “boycott” can add some spice to a relationship.
#7: It’s just a normal day.
February 14 is great, but it’s not the only date worth circling on your romantic calendar. Doing the little things every day holds just as much weight as big gestures.
Everyday is Valentine’s Day with the right person. Love is a non-stop affair, so why stop at one day when you have 364 more days to celebrate each other?
