DATING ADVICE
11 Sweet Things to Do in a Long Distance Relationship
With time zone differences and conflicting schedules, a lot goes into long distance relationships. The physical separation pushes such couples to work harder to keep their relationships alive since they can’t see each other at their convenience.
However, that doesn’t mean things can’t be fun. Who says long distance equals pure suffering?
One silver lining about long distance relationships is that they drive creativity. While separation is an obvious obstacle, it gives couples something to work around.
If you’re not much of a planner, here’s a list of 11 sweet things to do in a long distance relationship.
#1: Care packages
Since you can’t be with each other physically, tangible reminders are the next best thing. They show that they’re in your thoughts, even from afar.
Moreover, the best thing about care packages is their personalized nature. Fill them up with items you know your partner will appreciate. Recommendations include a sweet note and their favorite treats.
#2: Handwritten letters
Few things are as romantic as handwritten love letters. While emails and DMs are more convenient options, there’s something about sweet snail mail that tugs at the heartstrings.
Do you want to make your letter extra special? Send it as a surprise. It’ll be a nice pick-me-up on a random day.
#3: Virtual dates
I know in-person dates are incomparable to FaceTime calls, but the latter can be just as enjoyable. You can’t hold hands, but that doesn’t mean you should skimp on romance.
Jazz up video chats with candlelit meals (depending on your time zones, of course). It’ll make the miles feel less.
#4: Watch parties
Do you have a show you’re both obsessed with? Or do you want to watch something new together?
Stream and hold a watch party for two. Geeking out together over characters and plotlines (even from a distance) gives you more to bond over.
#5: Game nights
Admit it: a little competition is exciting. So why not include game nights as part of your long distance relationship activities?
Play cards or board games together online to kill the distance. Do you own a console? Complete your favorite multiplayer video game.
#6: Sending photos
As simple as this is, this act can go a long way. Random snapshots of your day-to-day doings will keep your partner up to speed and make them feel more connected to you.
#7: Sending memes
Humor is universally beloved. You’ll realize how much you’ll miss it when you’re in a long distance relationship.
Since you can’t share a laugh physically, do it online. Inject some laughter by sending each other memes. You can even share LDR-specific ones for relatability.
#8: 21 Questions
Keep each other curious through a game of 21 Questions. You can make it as sweet or as spicy as you like. Your answers will help bring you closer, even if you’re far apart.
#9: Takeout/delivery nights
Are you both tired after a long day? I know the last thing you want to do is cook.
Unwind by ordering delivery. Chow down on your favorites while catching up with each other over the phone.
#10: Pampering session
We all deserve a bit of pampering from time to time. Put on your favorite sheet masks and bust out your best personal care products for a relaxing night over a video chat. Don’t forget your comfy bathrobe!
#11: Planning for future meet-ups
How do you best bridge the distance? Plan your future reunion. It doesn’t even need grandiosity. Even a short trip to see each other is enough. Make a to-do list to sort out the details.
You don’t have to follow this list of 11 sweet things to do in a long distance relationship to the letter. You can take a few cues and do your own versions of these activities. Have fun!
