Passport Bros: Exploring the Movement of American Men Seeking Love Abroad

Shayma Popova
3 min readFeb 8, 2023

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A subculture of American men has emerged (and is currently making a trend) who are traveling abroad with the goal of finding a romantic partner or wife. Dubbed as “Passport Bros,” they are a group of American men who have decided to take a leap of faith and hop on a plane to find love among foreign women.

They often travel to countries where they believe women may have more traditional or conservative values, or be more appreciative of traditional gender roles.

But for real, who wouldn’t want to trade in the American dating scene for a chance at love in a foreign land? Who wouldn’t want to escape the endless swiping, ghosting, and disappointment of local dating and find a partner who shares their values and interests?

But, as with any trend, there are always two sides to the story. Some see the “Passport Bros” as adventurers, taking a chance on love in a foreign land. Others see them as cultural appropriators, exploiting women in other countries for their own benefit.

Let’s take a closer look at this trend and see if it’s worth packing your bags for a chance at love.

Why the “Passport Bros” Are Taking the Leap

Modern dating has now become a frustrating and disheartening experience, especially for American men. For them, it seems like they’re just going through the motions, swiping right on endless profiles but never finding a meaningful connection.

And that’s exactly what the “Passport Bros” are tired of. They believe that they can find a more meaningful connection in a foreign country, where women have different values and attitudes towards relationships than the women they have in their country. They’re looking for a partner who shares their interests and values, and they’re willing to travel thousands of miles to find her.

Some of these men are also attracted to the idea of a more traditional wife or the perception that women in other countries are more appreciative of traditional gender roles. Their reasoning is that they just want to be someone who is willing to put in the effort to appreciate them, something that they claim they have never experienced as American women are “too entitled” to do so.

There Are Risks and Rewards in Love, Wherever You Choose to Find It

Of course, finding love abroad is not without its risks. Cultural differences and language barriers can lead to misunderstandings and disappointment. And in some cases, these relationships may be criticized for being based on unequal power dynamics, or for perpetuating negative stereotypes about foreign women.

However, for those who are willing to take the risk, the rewards can be great. Love knows no borders, and a relationship with someone from a different culture can bring new perspectives, experiences, and ways of seeing the world.

Final Thoughts

What do we make of the “Passport Bros”?

Are they brave adventurers, taking a chance on love in a foreign land?

Or are they cultural appropriators, exploiting women in other countries for their own benefit?

But then again, the motivations, ethics, and outcomes of this type of pursuit vary from one person or another. But, whether you’re a fan or a skeptic, one thing is for sure: the “Passport Bros” are a testament to the idea that love knows no borders.

What do these men have in common?

They are taking a bold step in the name of love. They are taking a bold step in the pursuit of finding a meaningful connection, someone who shares their values and interests, and a chance at happiness.

At the end of the day, it’s up to each individual to weigh the risks and rewards and make their own decision about whether seeking love abroad is the right path for them. But for those who do take the leap, they will always have the memories and experiences of their journey to cherish, no matter the outcome.

Now, what do you think? Would you be willing to travel the world in search of love? Let us know in the comments!

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Shayma Popova
Shayma Popova

Written by Shayma Popova

I write truths about dating and relationships as a Content Manager for https://odessawomen.com/

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