REALITIES
This Is How You Know They’re Playing for Keeps
Sometimes, dating and relationships follow the mantra of “if you know, you know.”
Some moments need no explanation. Our instincts take over and tell us what to do.
One of those things is knowing if your current person is playing for keeps. It’ll take some signs, of course. But once they manifest, you’ll lead yourself in your desired direction.
If a previous article covered dating without expected outcomes, this has a specific one in mind. There’s certainty and commitment written all over it.
Without further ado, here are the signs you should look out for.
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#1: They take their time.
If someone rushes things in your relationship, you may want to do a double-take. It’s not a race, so there’s no need to pace yourselves like marathoners. Like what The Supremes famously sang, you can’t hurry love.
In all seriousness, taking time with your partner is the way to go. Slowing down allows your feelings and connection to grow naturally, eliminating whatever pressure is hounding both of you. This slow and steady pace makes for more enjoyable relationships.
#2: They want to meet your people.
Dating openly and publicly is one thing. Sharing the news, however? It’s another story entirely. It’s not as big as a pregnancy or wedding announcement, but it’s significant nonetheless.
And in line with that, you know they’re playing for keeps when they want to get to know your special people. While they’re nervous, they’re also ready to face that truth. If that doesn’t scream “commitment,” then I don’t know what else does.
#3: They introduce you to their special folks.
Since we’re on the subject of bringing other people into the fold, let’s continue where sign #2 left off.
In love and dating, few things are as reassuring as being proudly introduced to a partner’s friends and family. When your significant other does that, they hit two birds with one stone.
One, they’re integrating you into their lives. They want you closer, letting you further into their ins and outs. And two, they’re making a statement. This lets their people know they want you around for the long haul.
#4: They don’t hide you (and your relationship’s status).
When your SO introduces or mentions you, they don’t tag you as a friend. Instead, they tell the truth about your place in their life without hesitation. How’s that for a proud partner?
To play for keeps means clearing the air regarding your setup. You know your partner’s serious when they don’t hide the fact you’re together. If they could, they’d even shout out loud and let the world know you’re theirs and they’re yours.
#5: They see the little things.
Tiny details matter just as much as huge ones. It’s why people often say not to sweat the small stuff.
In relationships, knowing each other’s interests and hobbies is a given. But things are sweeter when they keep the little things in mind, such as your preferred side of the bed and how you like your coffee. Since they plan to stick around for the long haul, they want to know everything they can about you, even the tiniest ticks.
Don’t waste time with someone who isn’t playing for keeps. You’ve got better things to do than stress over mind games.
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