ROMANCE
Get Closer With These Timeless Acts of Love
Intimacy is a small part of the grand scheme of relationships, but it’s significant nonetheless.
People often view intimacy through a physical lens; I don’t blame anyone for that. After all, most images and discussions tackle the subject in that light.
Fortunately, that’s not the only way couples can get closer.
You and your partner can build an intimate relationship in more wholesome ways.
#1: Recreate the honeymoon stage
Do you remember the time you started out as a couple? While bliss remains in your relationship, you can’t deny it was at an all-time high during that period.
Keep things interesting by restaging that phase. No, you don’t need to rehash every single detail. The point is to relive the feelings. Travel back in time and pretend your love story is just at its beginning.
#2: Conversations
Talking to each other may mean little on the surface. It’s a daily activity, after all. But your conversations can help you get closer.
Even talking about your day is enough to lift your partner’s mood. Also, your talks (little or big) are great spaces for communication-building. Don’t take them for granted.
#3: Quiet quality time
Some consider silence awkward and unpleasant, as they often mistake it for coldness. But in reality, it’s just as comforting as long conversations. Sometimes, words aren’t necessary for great moments.
Sitting together without saying anything can be an intimate experience. Your connection doesn’t always need verbal explanations as a show of strength.
#4: Taking naps or sleeping together
Falling asleep next to each other is a bigger deal than it looks.
Sure, you can get knocked out beside a random person when you’re tired beyond comprehension. However, sleeping with someone in the literal sense takes trust and vulnerability.
You know you and your partner are comfortable when you can drift off to dreamland together. It doesn’t always have to be a prelude to getting physical.
#5: Sharing each other’s favorites
Your partner’s curious about that show you’ve been binge-watching for the past few days. At the same time, you want to know the game they’ve been playing for hours. Ask each other and get interesting answers.
Sharing about your interests makes for more stimulating conversations. It goes to show that you can learn something new about each other every day.
#6: Cuddles
There’s a reason most (if not all) of us are suckers for cuddling. It gives us a jolt of joy (thanks to “happy” hormones like serotonin) and calms us down, especially on rough days.
Physical touch has a soothing effect on people. So, spend time simply cuddling with each other, giving and receiving much-needed comfort.
#7: Big embraces
Even if you’re not a big hugger, you can’t deny how great embraces feel, especially if they’re from your partner. Like cuddles, embraces release endorphins. Whether in celebration or sorrow, hugs can evoke the feeling of security in your relationship.
Building an intimate relationship isn’t as complicated as some make it seem. These suggestions should hopefully help you and your partner get closer as you navigate life and love together.
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