RELATIONSHIP ADVICE
Want to Strengthen Your Relationship? Travel Together
I’m sure you’ve seen your share of friends documenting their happiness on trips, whether as solo sojourns or adventures with their lovers. Indeed, traveling is food for the soul.
But here’s something about the latter — as corny as this sounds, it’s merrier if you travel together. Not only does it become more fun, but it also transforms into an emotionally nourishing experience.
Why Travel Together With Your Partner?
You don’t have to be frequent jet setters. Traveling with your partner now and then can still do wonders for your relationship.
These reasons should convince you to pack your bags and head off to your desired destination:
#1: You’ll experience and learn new things.
There’s always a first time for everything, even if you’ve been together for years. The experiences and lessons you gain on your travels are uniquely yours, keeping your relationship fresh. And you have to admit, it feels pretty empowering.
#2: Trust will increase.
Even the most organized people can’t predict how trips will turn out. You’ll have your share of unexpected and unfamiliar moments during its course. These push you to trust each other because you’re the only ones you’ve got.
#3: You’ll grow closer.
Your experiences and lessons will give you something else to bond over. Having your partner along for the ride makes trips less lonely because you’ll have someone to share moments with.
#4: You break routines.
Don’t get me wrong; Netflix watch parties and dinner dates are great! However, an occasional getaway wouldn’t hurt. This spontaneity adds spice to your relationship.
Planning Your Trip
Before you bust out your suitcase, get the nitty-gritty details out of the way. Don’t worry; frequent flyer miles and first-class tickets aren’t necessary.
#1: Start on a smaller scale.
Going all-out on a fancy trip is tempting. However, I suggest you go small, especially if it’s your first rodeo. There’s no harm in testing the waters. An overnight stay in a nearby city is good enough.
#2: Sort out your budget.
Money is a subject most couples fight over. Before booking anything, ensure you’ve got your budget in order. The last thing you want to happen is to run out of funds in the middle of a trip.
Are money talks sexy? No, but they’re necessary. There’s no use sweeping it under the rug.
#3: Create a wishlist.
Where do you want to go? What do you want to do at that specific destination? Brainstorm and lay out ideas for your itinerary.
#4: Discuss preferences and expectations.
You may be a couple, but this doesn’t mean you have the same travel style. You might prefer making the most of your trip by exploring places as early as 7 a.m. on your first day, while your partner prefers sleeping in to gather energy for tomorrow.
Avoid nasty surprises by discussing your travel needs and wants. Don’t leave anything unaddressed.
Travel together while you still can; the world is your oyster. The memories will be a sweet payoff, aside from the destinations.
